FREE WORKSHOP | COMMUNITY HEALING

What was hurt in relationships can be healed in relationships.

A free workshop with Clint & Calli on why healing alone feels so exhausting, and what your nervous system actually needs to feel safe with people again.

You’ve read the books. You’ve saved the posts. You can probably name your attachment style.

And still, when someone says “can we talk?”, your chest tightens. You go quiet when you wish you could speak up. You say yes while your whole body is saying no.

That doesn’t mean you’re failing at healing.

It means most of what we learned in relationships isn’t stored as a thought. It lives in the body. And the body doesn’t update from reading. It updates from new experiences, with people who feel safe enough.

That’s what this workshop is about.

What you’ll learn

In this workshop, we’ll walk you through:

✦ The nervous system ladder. A simple way to notice whether you’re in green, yellow or blue, so you can catch yourself before a reaction takes over.

✦ Why insight isn’t enough on its own. Why understanding your patterns doesn’t stop them, and what actually helps your body learn something new.

✦ Neuroception and co-regulation. How your body is constantly scanning for safety, and why none of us ever stop needing other people to help us settle.

✦ Earned security. Why your attachment style is information, not a life sentence, and how secure attachment can be built in adulthood.

✦ Parts work, gently. How to meet the nervous, watchful, people-pleasing or shut-down parts of you without fighting or overriding them.

✦ When your partner isn’t meeting you there. An honest conversation about what to do when you’re doing the work and they’re not, including what happened in our own relationship.

You won’t just listen

Partway through, we’ll guide you through a short practice called “1% safer.” It’s a way to notice what helps your body feel even a little safer, and to respond to yourself in the moment.

It’s small, and that’s the point. Healing doesn’t have to be big and dramatic.

What to expect

We always tell you what’s coming, so nothing catches you off guard.

✦ The workshop was recorded live with our community and runs about [90] minutes.

✦  It includes a check-in, some teaching, a gentle guided practice, a moment to reflect, and questions from our members.

✦ Every practice is optional. Watch, pause, skip or come back later.

✦ You don’t need a partner, and you don’t need to be “far enough along.”

If part of you feels nervous about anything group-shaped, that part makes sense. For a lot of us, groups weren’t safe places. You can watch this alone, in your own time, with no one watching you back.

This is for you if...

  • You’re the one who holds everything together, and you’re tired
  • You understand your patterns but still can’t stop repeating them
  • You’ve been trying to heal on your own, and it feels lonely
  • You’re single and want to stop saying “I’m fine” when you’re not
  • You’re partnered and stuck in the same pursue-withdraw loop
  • You’re navigating distance from family and want to know safer relationships are possible
  • You’re a cycle-breaker, figuring this out without a map

Meet Clint & Calli

We’re Clint and Calli. We’re married, we co-parent, and we’re trauma-informed relationship coaches who spent years as therapists.

We’ve also been through our own separation and found our way back to each other. So when we talk about repair, we’re not teaching theory. We’re sharing what got us through.

You don’t have to do this alone.

This workshop is a small way in, one you can take at your own pace.

You’ll get instant access to the replay, plus a few emails from us over the next week. You can unsubscribe at any time.

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